Does my ex want me back?
An honest analysis of your chat after the breakup: is your ex reaching out from interest, out of politeness, or is the chapter closed?
After a breakup every message is hard to read. Is your ex reaching out from interest, guilt or just politeness? The analysis looks at initiative, affection and the trend since the breakup and tells you honestly, even when the answer hurts.
The signals that actually matter
Who texts first
Whoever restarts the conversation after a pause is investing. A share of 40 % or more is a good sign.
Reply time in the conversation
We only measure replies within ongoing conversations, not the night in between. Replying fast while you are chatting is interest.
Questions back
“And you?” is one of the strongest signals. People who ask back want to keep the conversation going.
Length and effort
Long messages, voice notes and photos show effort. Lots of one-word replies show the opposite.
Plans and meeting up
Suggesting to meet, or offering another date after saying no, means they are serious.
Warmth and mirroring
Laughing, hearts, stretched words and a writing style that matches yours, compared to how the person normally writes.
Closeness and affection
“We”, pet names, compliments, good-night texts and “miss you”, slang included.
The trend
The direction matters more than the average: recent weeks are compared with the time before.
How it works
- 1Export the chat in WhatsApp without media and drop it here. The file is read in your browser.
- 2Tell us briefly what you are to each other. Your free preview instantly shows the score and the three strongest signals.
- 3For the AI report, names, numbers and links are removed first. You get an honest verdict with evidence, an answer to your question and next steps.
Questions
Will it tell me how to win them back?
You get honest, respectful next steps. If the chat clearly shows the chapter is closed, the report says that too.
Should I upload the whole chat or just since the breakup?
The whole chat. We compare the time before with recent weeks, which makes the trend visible.
Is my chat stored?
No. The preview runs entirely in your browser. For the AI report, a selection of messages without names, numbers and links is sent to our server and OpenAI, used only for the analysis and not stored.
What does it cost?
The preview with score and the three strongest signals is free. The full AI report is a one-time $11.99 (€11.99 in Europe), no subscription. One re-analysis with changed details is included.
How accurate is it?
The report shows likelihoods, not certainty, and tells you how confident it is. With few messages confidence is low. When in doubt, talking is the only way to know.